The Real Deal with Jen Costa

Welcome to Intuitive Kids: Then & Now. In this sub series, I'll be chatting with experienced intuitives, mediums, and psychics about their childhood experiences with intuition and psychic abilities. Through these conversations, I aim to offer a sense of community and reassurance to you, the listeners that you're not alone on your spiritual journey. I hope you enjoy!
Today my guest is Jenni Conn, who also goes by The Medium Experience. Jenni is a psychic medium who has a deep love and respect for psychology. She hosts beautiful in person retreats, mentors others on their healing path, provides education through coaching and workshops. She also just launched a membership, hosts a podcast called the Medium Experience, and is just an amazing overall person.
We discuss:
How she was an extremely empathic child and cried a lot in her elementary years
How she could “read” people in middle school
How she shifted and received attention for being “the girl no one would want to mess with” in school
Her experience on the wrestling team
Her experience with her mother who was involved in the intuitive world
Her belief that all children are intuitive
How being intuitive has enriched her life
Trauma and conditioning and the role it plays in our lives
Advice to kids who don’t want to experience their intuitive abilities
Guidance she gives to her own two intuitive sons
and more!
If you want to connect with Jenni or find out more about her and what she offers you can:
Website: The Medium Experience
Follow Jenni on Instagram @themediumexperience
Podcast The Medium Experience: Apple  Spotify
Jenni and I are teaching a class together! It’s a 5 week Intuitive Development group for women. If you’re curious DM myself or Jenni for more info or SIGN UP HERE
If you have questions, are interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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Today I talk about my recent experiences being afraid and doing things that scare me. My hope is this episode inspires you to move past your own fears and do things that scare you to pursue growth and/or fun.
Keep an eye out for my bi-weekly series called Intuitive Kids: Then & Now, where I chat with experienced intuitives, mediums, and psychics about their childhood experiences with intuition and psychic abilities. Through these conversations, I aim to offer a sense of community and reassurance to you, the listeners that you're not alone on your spiritual journey.
If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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Today my guest is Bri Millar, who also goes by Daylight Oracle. Bri is a psychic medium and intuitive guide. Growing up she was a very psychic and empathic child but it wasn’t until a life altering car accident that she became dedicated to working with her abilities. Ultimately having to leave a successful career as a teacher, she was able to find healing & magic through Mediumship and other modalities such as Reiki & Angel connections. 
We discuss:
Being an empathic child and growing up with religious parents
Having multiple spiritual awakenings throughout life from grade 2 to now
Bri’s experience as a teacher working with deaf, blind and/or autistic children and looking back how her intuitiveness, empathicness and psychic abilities helped her
Being bullied from grade 3-11 and the role her empathic abilities played in her experience
How being friends with the ‘outcasts’ in high school carried over to who she likes to work with/help today
We also touch upon advice for parents on how to help and support an empathic child:
When presented with something different we can find that very challenging. Respond with Curiosity.
Encourage parents to learn about intuitive abilities OR find the child someone to talk to.
When they share their experiences with you, believe your child OR believe that is the experience they are having.
Connect with Bri:
Bri’s website
Podcast: The Lightworker Connection – Apple |  Spotify  |  Podbean
Instagram
If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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After taking some time off, I'm back and ready to dive into some intriguing topics! This time around, I'll be exploring the fascinating world of premonitions, sharing personal stories that shed light on these mysterious experiences.
In addition, I'm kicking off a new sub-series, next week, titled "Intuitive Kids: Then and Now." In this series, I'll be chatting with experienced adults who have studied mediumship, spirituality, and energy work. Together, we'll reflect on their childhood experiences as intuitive or psychic individuals.
My aim with this series is to create a sense of community and reassurance for parents and young adults who may be going through similar experiences. By sharing stories and insights, I hope to show that they're not alone on their journey.
If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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In this episode, I reflect on why I've transitioned from celebrating Thanksgiving to observing a day of mourning. I delve into my personal journey, childhood experiences, and the transformative moments that led to this shift in perspective.   
I acknowledge that I’m still learning and growing in this area, and as a white woman I still have a lot to learn. In this episode, I did my best to share my understanding of these atrocities and how they have shifted my perspective. But I am a work in progress and I am continuing to learn and grow in these areas. And I don’t have all the answers.
I also want to acknowledge that when I say the word ‘Indian’ in this episode I’m using the terminology that was historically used during my childhood, but indigenous people have many ways of identifying and when possible it’s best to use community based terminology.
 
Links mentioned in episode:
PODCAST:  This Land: Season 2
SHOP INDIGENOUS:  8th Generation: Inspired Natives®, not "Native-inspired."
THANKSGIVING PRAYER:  This Land Belongs to No One: Thanksgiving Prayer Honoring our Ancestors and Native Peoples’ Land
WHAT LAND ARE YOU ON:  MAP
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In this episode, I share valuable insights into the tools and exercises that played a crucial role in my personal journey and mediumship development classes.
Tools for Personal Development:
Meditation Magic: Dive into the transformative power of meditation as I recount my personal meditation experiences. Discover how this practice can become a cornerstone for developing my own intuition.
Sitting in the Power: Uncover the concept of "Sitting in the Power" and its significance in enhancing your spiritual connection. Gain insights into how this practice can deepen your intuitive abilities.
Visualizing Energy: Explore the art of seeing energy and its various forms. Learn about my own experiences and understand the visual cues that can guide you on your spiritual journey.
Allowing Spirit's Influence: Delve into the intriguing topic of allowing spirit to move your body. I discuss the nuances of this experience and share insights.
The Journaling Journey: Discover the power of journaling as a tool for intuitive development. I explore the journaling process and how it can be a transformative practice on your path to heightened intuition.
Practical Exercises for Fun and Growth:
Card Deck Intuition: Elevate your intuitive skills with practical exercises using regular card decks or UNO cards. Learn how these simple tools can be gateways to heightened perception.
Color Guessing with Felt Pads: Engage in a vibrant exercise of guessing colors using felt pads. Uncover the fun and insightful ways in which this activity can sharpen your intuitive senses.
Amplifying Clairaudience: I share a technique for increasing clairaudience, allowing you to tune into the subtle sounds of the spiritual realm. Explore practical exercises to enhance this aspect of intuition.
Musical Intuition: Discover the role of songs in intuition. I elaborate on how certain tunes can serve as powerful conduits for spiritual connection and offer exercises to incorporate music into your intuitive practices.
Aura-Seeing: Delve into the world of auras with a practical exercise for honing your ability to see and interpret energy fields.
These tools and exercises are not only informative but also designed to make your intuitive development an enriching and enjoyable experience. Remember the more you can have fun with these exercises the easier the answers flow to you.
If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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In this episode, I talk about labels, the meaning of words, and how they exist and extend beyond our mediumship readings. I also discuss:
What words evoke a rection from me
Why are words important
Why choosing the appropriate words are important, especially in healing modalities
How to examine a word when it rubs you the wrong way
My challenge to you…
If you're having unusual experiences, interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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In this episode, I explore why kids often exhibit a natural sensitivity to the metaphysical world and how, as parents, we can navigate and support these unique encounters. Join me as I share personal stories, practical tips, and insights to help you understand and assist your child on their intuitive journey. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance or a curious young listener, this episode is an exploration into the world of psychic/intuitive sensitivity in children.
In this episode I address the following:
Why are children so open to the "woo" when they're younger?
Conditioning by Society:
Children, especially in North America, are naturally open before societal conditioning takes hold.
The unfiltered connection they feel is considered normal until influenced otherwise. 
Varying Degrees:
Not every child will experience intuitive moments, and those who do may vary in their degree of sensitivity
My Daughter's Journey:
Early Signs:
As a baby, my daughter displayed sensitivity, crying when other babies cried.
Neurodevelopmental evaluation led to occupational therapy and a specialized anxiety program.
Anxiety and Sensitivity:
Explored anxiety through Tony Stockwell meditation at 5-6 years old.
Recognized as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) with deep empathy and intuition.
Struggles in groups, aversion to loud sounds, and big worries about the world.
Other Signs of Intuition:
Reading people effortlessly, strong connection to animals, and moments of unexpected insight.
Sleeping Challenges:
Fear of the Dark:
Sleeping issues, fear of the dark.
Use of strand lights or salt lamps for a comforting, low-lit environment.
Our World View:
Psychic Kids in Media:
Addressing sensationalism in Hollywood.
Embracing the concept of subtle energy.
Parental Guidance:
Your Kid is Not Cursed (not that I know of anyway):
Reassurance that intuitive kids aren't cursed-as this has not been in my own personal experience.
Caution against relying solely on gems and objects; mental health check is crucial.
Communication:
Encouraging open dialogue about any unusual experiences.
Recognizing that what seems normal to them might be extraordinary.
Acceptance and Understanding:
Avoiding dismissiveness; instead, listen and give time for understanding to unfold.
Developmental challenges in comprehending their experiences.
Supportive Measures:
Assurance of safety.
Medium consultations and therapy considerations.
Connection with metaphysical shops and kids' groups.
Grounding Techniques:
Going outside barefoot, holding rocks, practicing yoga.
Tools for Coping:
Setting Boundaries:
Establishing boundaries with the metaphysical realm.
Recognizing that communication can feel overwhelming.
Practical Techniques:
Using sprays and rituals from metaphysical shops.
Consistent practice; intuition is a skill that develops over time.
Nighttime Routine:
Rituals and routines before bedtime.
Intentional use of lights and energy protection techniques.
Personal Practices:
Collaborative meditations to ease anxiety.
Card-pulling in the morning for guidance.
Use of energy-clearing sprays and crystals.
My Personal Journey:
Late Awakening
My own significant intuitive experiences didn't occur until I was 36.
Deep connections with horses, highly sensitive as a child.
Empathy and Nature Connection:
Profound ability to read people.
If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com.
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Today, I aim to demystify mediumship and provide you with valuable insights into what to expect during a mediumship reading, and what I wish I knew before my first reading.
In this episode, I address the following key questions:
What is a Mediumship Reading?
Discover the fundamental concept of a mediumship reading and how it differs from other types of spiritual readings.
What is a Psychic Reading?
Explore the distinction between mediumship and psychic readings to gain a clearer understanding of these spiritual practices.
What Happens During a Mediumship Reading?
Delve into the intriguing process of a mediumship reading and learn about the connections that are made with spirit.
How to Find the Right Medium?
Finding a trustworthy medium is crucial. I offer guidance on how to choose the right medium for your needs, including:
Seeking referrals from trusted sources.
Considering the pros and cons of in-person readings versus virtual sessions via platforms like Zoom or phone calls.
Evaluating mediums through their online presence, websites, podcasts, or social media. Discernment is key.
Emphasizing the importance of personal resonance over popularity when selecting a medium.
Checking if their services align with your specific needs.
Understanding each persons pricing and ensuring it fits your budget.
How to Prepare for a Mediumship Reading
Learn the steps to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for a mediumship reading to maximize the experience. You can prepare or not, it’s all up to you.
How Often Should You Get a Reading?
Discover the ideal frequency for seeking mediumship readings and gain insights into when it might be most beneficial for you.
Why Do People Seek Mediumship Readings?
Explore the various reasons why individuals turn to mediums for guidance, healing, and connection with the spirit world.
Join me as I attempt to demystify mediumship and empower you with the knowledge you need to make informed decisions about your spiritual path. Whether you're new to mediumship or seeking to deepen your understanding, this episode has something for everyone.
 
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In this episode I get real about the rollercoaster that was this month. To put it bluntly I feel like this past month has kicked me in the face after going through some big changes, and personal losses. I decided something had to change so I could get back to regular so I’ve coined this month “Healing August.” I haven’t felt this emotionally and physically depleted in a long, long time on my mediumship journey. So I decided for the month, I was going to do one thing every day just for me. I discuss what I did to try and get myself back to level.
Episode Highlights:
We don’t often take care of ourselves the way we need to. Some things I do:
Curate my social media to only follow people that bring me value, positiveness, happiness.
Put yourself in the position to receive magic.
The moon cycles may affect your mood or otherwise. Keep an eye around new and full moon times.
Take a break when you need to heal, and rest. Take the time for yourself. Practice just being.
I will be doing a live Q&A on mediumship and all things woo at the end of September. Stay tuned for details!
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